When the Cheshire emerges...

Watch If You Are The One on SBS2 at 8.30 tonight (so now if on Eastern time) if you have any interest in dating shows.

This one has 50 million viewers across China each week - and for good reason, it's pretty interesting. I discovered it last week and have actually gone back to it.

One guy has 24 potential dates and either has the choice of choosing or gets rejected by all of them.

I'd put a photo up but none of them are working. Trying to figure out if that's because of China's internet controls...

Anyway, watch.

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Looking into the mirror and disliking the self that you take with you everywhere you go is one of the most self-defeating things you can do.

No-limit people are so in charge that they can trust their instincts, be childlike, be creative, and do anything that makes sense to them.